It is absolutely essential for parents to understand that while there are many different manifestations of social anxiety there are basically two types of people who have the problem. One is the individual who is capable of initiative. The other is not. Initiative does not mean ability. It means to “start up”. No children are capable of initiative. 99% of teenagers are not. Many adults are overly dependent on their caregivers and, therefore are not capable of initiative.

The biggest mistake that is made regarding social anxiety is to believe that the child who is “shy” or socially avoidant will simply grow out of the problem. This is not the case. The problem gets worse with time. The reality is that healing occurs when the person learns their way out of the problem. When dependants of any age do not have initiative, the parents have two choices. One is to learn how to empower the child to healing. The other is to do nothing, which is is “enabling” the problem.

As a parent, you have a lot of power to help your child heal: whether your child is 6, 16, or, 26. The earlier that parents learn a corrective parenting strategy for the socially anxious child, the easier therapeutic objectives can be reached; the anxiety has less of a chance to work its way into the personality and create avoidant and dependent characteristics!

Understand that time is your most valuable asset. Taking action now can save you from a lifetime of distress and despair.

Your Options

1. Free video of Sally Raphael show featuring a number of patients with social anxiety ($10.95 postage in the U.S., $19.95 outside of U.S.)
2. Free Introductory CD
3. Free social-ability questionnaire
4. Free 17-step parenting methodology
5. Free "Parent Addiction" quiz
6. Comprehensive therapy in Great Neck, New York
7. Parenting therapy via telephone
8. Comprehensive audio self-therapy program
9. "Social Therapy and the Learning Disabled: A 2 1/2 hour seminar on audio tape. (For parents)
10. The book, "Beyond Shyness: How to Conquer Social Anxieties" (Simon & Schuster)
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